~Geraldine, UK.
“Hi Barbara, I would like to thank you for everything that you have done for me; you have truly changed my life forever! I have never felt so emotionally peaceful in my life before. You gave me such clarity on David’s death and all the nagging why questions were answered. I thought that it would take years to make peace with what happened to that lovely boy but you gave me something that I am really so grateful for and that was peace. Since our meeting I have been very open with people and telling them exactly how I feel about a situation. I have been in situations that I am not comfortable with and I have stood up to the situation and said I am not comfortable with this! It is such an amazing feeling and afterwards I have this great sense of fulfillment, that I have said something and don’t have to carry the burden around with me. Although, there has been situations that I have not dealt with as I should but I think it is all a work in progress!!It has helped me greatly with my new job. I am not always the most courageous person but I am working through whatever situation presents itself and am trying to make the most emotionally balanced decision and in some instances I have come up trumps and others not but there are always lessons to be learnt isn’t it! I feel that I have grown so much as a person with what tools you have equipped me with and that was just after 1 session!! I have so much more to grow but am really reveling in my current state of mind! I have also met a very nice young man! I have been single for 4 years and David was the closest that I came to finding someone that I have feelings for and would like to pursue. Now I have met a very nice boy who really fancies me and I really fancy him. What you said to me about finding someone that shows ME love and wants to be around ME has stuck in my head! This boy really makes an effort and spoils me with affection. When we go somewhere he is always reaching out to touch my hand or my leg just to make sure I am there. And you are right; this is exactly what I need. It has only been 2 weeks so of course it is the honeymoon period and he is on his best behavior but I am very aware of how I should be treated. The only BUT in the equation is that a friend of ours (we met through this person, he is both our friends) said that he is a ladies man and that he might have a girlfriend in another town! This sent me off in a bit of a flat spin at first as I am not going to be the other woman. He has told me that he is recently divorced (2 years) and his wife left him for another man and has subsequently married this man. This settled me as far as the Womanizer aspect is concerned as any man whose wife runs off with another man is not going to stay at home crying on his couch! The girlfriend part is concerning as if this is true then it is against everything I believe. But I have a nagging feeling that this is NOT true. I don’t know why, maybe it’s because he was 2 timed? I am trying to put in place all the lessons that you taught me but I seem to be second guessing myself. I am also getting a lot of interference from friends giving me advise on how they think that I should handle it so I am getting myself into a bit of a twist to know how I need to deal with the situation. I know that I am going to end up confronting the situation and asking him whether there is someone else but in a subtle way so as not to ambush him incase this is not true but I don’t have that unsettled feeling inside that says something is not right. Anyway, I will work through this 1 step at a time and I am sure it will work out, only time will tell! After all of this waffling on, I just wanted to say Thank You for everything you have done for me and for changing my life! I owe you an enormous amount and would love to see you again when you are back in Durban to have a catch up and to learn more from you. You are an absolute inspiration Barbara Scogings!” ~All my love and best wishes