~Lisa Nicholson
“I made the decision to consult with Barbara periodically over the past 2 years to try deal better with life’s hiccups such as a challenging childhood, personal insecurities etc. But I now know why I really met Barbara. My husband and I recently lost our little baby girl, Chloe, when I was 6 ½ months pregnant (27/12/2005). She was perfect and the pregnancy was perfect but unfortunately pneumonia changed all of that. What has helped me stay sane and not become bitter, angry and depressed (which is very easy to do) is an acceptance that my baby girl is safe, happy and I learnt so much from the little time I held her in my arms. It is my choice how I choose to react to this tragedy. I can either be a victim or I can accept to value Chloe’s impact in my life and honour her by moving forward in a positive and graceful manner. I will meet Chloe again and no doubt she will be the wiser one and I will have learnt so much. She left for me so that I can stay…….stay to learn, grow and fly. I choose to fly and without the help of Barbara, I am not sure I would have been brave enough to try.”